Nollywood actress and recent mother, Olayinka Solomon has encouraged single mothers.
She claimed that no woman can truly be happy while raising children from several fathers in a joint post with Mercy Aigbe. She claims that rather than the tranquility they all want, the journey is instead characterized by hardship.
It takes a true man to stay and nurture a child, Solomon observed, but any man can drop sperm and create a child. She added that while there are many sperm donors, there aren’t many real fathers.
She claims that while having a child is simple, staying to be a father is where boys and men get estranged. The Yoruba actress went on to say that a woman who has children from multiple fathers bears a burden that few can see as she attempts to manage expectations, feelings, and the never-ending struggle for stability.
Sending a message to single mothers, Olayinka told them that their strength is unmatched, their love is unstoppable and their sacrifices are shaping a brighter future. She noted how behind every strong child was a single mother who gave everything even when she felt she had nothing.
“No woman finds true happiness raising children by different fathers; it’s a journey often marked by struggle, not the peace we all seek.
Any man can drop sperm and make a baby, but it takes a real one to stay and raise a child.
Sperm donors are plenty, but real fathers are rare.
Making a baby is easy. Sticking around to be a dad? That’s where boys get separated from men.
A woman with children from different fathers carries a weight few can see – balancing emotions, expectations, and the constant fight for stability.
To every single mother holding it down—your strength is unmatched, your love is unstoppable, and your sacrifices are shaping a brighter future.
Behind every strong child is a single mother who gave everything, even when she felt she had nothing left…
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